Topic
Hiring and verification
Hiring goes wrong in two ways: too fast, or too vague. Too fast means someone starts on the strength of a neighbour’s recommendation with no ID check, no written scope and no trial period. Too vague means both sides assume different jobs — the family expects a nurse, the caregiver expects to cook and clean, and the arrangement collapses in week three.
The pages here cover the whole sequence: what to ask for before anyone is hired, which documents matter, how to write a scope of work that a caregiver can actually follow, what a fair trial period looks like, and what to demand from an agency in writing rather than by phone.
Start with the checklist if you are in a hurry — it is ordered so that the first four items protect your parent when you are not at home.
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Guides: finding and hiring
- Verification: police, ID and reference checks explained7 min · 2026-10-10
- How to tell your parent you are hiring help7 min · 2026-10-10
- Replacement policy and trial period: what to demand7 min · 2026-10-10
- Questions to ask before hiring a home attendant or nurse7 min · 2026-10-10
- When siblings disagree about care for a parent7 min · 2026-10-10
- Night attendant for elderly: when it is worth it7 min · 2026-10-10
- Managing a caretaker from another city or country7 min · 2026-10-10
- Home care vs old age home: how to decide7 min · 2026-10-10
- How to choose a caretaker: a 12-point checklist8 min · 2026-10-10
- Caretaker contract: what to put in writing7 min · 2026-10-10
- Attendant vs nurse vs physiotherapist: who do you need?7 min · 2026-10-10
- 24-hour vs 12-hour vs live-in care: pros, cons, cost7 min · 2026-10-10